我需要你的愛。這是真的嗎? : 「一念之轉」創始人寫給你的痛苦解脫書 / 拜倫.凱蒂(Byron Katie), 麥可.卡茨(Michael Katz)著 ; 陳曦譯.
- 作者： 凱蒂 (Katie, Byron)
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- 其他題名：
- I need your love--is that true?.
- 我需要你的愛這是真的嗎
- How to stop seeking love, approval, and appreciation and start finding them instead
- 「一念之轉」創始人寫給你的痛苦解脫書
- 自信人生 ;
- 出版： 臺北市 : 方智出版 :叩應經銷 2020[民109].
- 叢書名： 自信人生 ;166
- 主題： 自我實現 , 人際關係
- 版本：初版
- ISBN： 9789861755656 (平裝) :: NT$350
- 一般註：附錄: 轉念作業進階工具 譯自: I need your love--is that true? : how to stop seeking love, approval, and appreciation and start finding them instead
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讀者標籤：
- 系統號： 005167130 | 機讀編目格式
館藏資訊
In Loving What Is, bestselling author Byron Katie introduced thousands of people to her simple and profound method of finding happiness through questioning the mind. Now, I Need Your Love--Is That True? examines a universal, age-old source of anxiety: our relationships with others. In this groundbreaking book, Katie helps you question everything you have been taught to do to gain love and approval. In doing this, you discover how to find genuine love and connection. The usual advice offered in self-help books and reinforced by our culture advocates a stressful, all-consuming quest for love and approval. We are advised to learn self-marketing and manipulative skills--how to attract, impress, seduce, and often pretend to be something we aren't. This approach doesn't work. It leaves millions of walking wounded--those who, having failed to find love or appreciation, blame themselves and conclude that they are unworthy of love. I Need Your Love--Is That True? helps you illuminate every area in your life where you seem to lack what you long for most--the love of your spouse, the respect of your child, a lover's tenderness, or the esteem of your boss. Through its penetrating inquiry, you will quickly discover the falseness of the accepted ways of seeking love and approval, and also of the mythology that equates love with need. Using the method in this book, you will inquire into painful beliefs that you've based your whole life on--and be delighted to see them evaporate. Katie shows you how unraveling the knots in the search for love, approval, and appreciation brings real love and puts you in charge of your own happiness. "Everyone agrees that love is wonderful, except when it's terrible. People spend their whole lives tantalized by love--seeking it, trying to hold on to it, or trying to get over it. Not far behind love, as major preoccupations, come approval and appreciation. From childhood on, most people spend much of their energy in a relentless pursuit of these things, trying out different methods to be noticed, to please, to impress, and to win other people's love, thinking that's just the way life is. This effort can become so constant and unquestioned that we barely notice it anymore. This book takes a close look at what works and what doesn't in the quest for love and approval. It will help you find a way to be happier in love and more effective in all your relationships. What you learn here will bring fulfillment to all kinds of relationships, including romantic love, dating, marriage, work, and friendship." --Byron Katie